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2011年11月11日 星期五

我的中學歷程 (2)



 


 


 


 


我相信中學生大多數都曾給同學們調侃過,把一男一


 


 


女配對成情侶; 只要你曾跟某女同學較為“傾得


 


 


埋”,便被人唱成一對,或者是“乜哥乜嫂”的。 


 


 


當然也曾有過如此的經歷,與一個班中比較活躍的女


 


 


同學被“撮合”為乜哥乜嫂,這讓我們感到非常尷


 


 


尬,每次在走廊上碰到對方時都得繞路走,然後在逼


 


 


不得已要在同一場合聚在一起時,都覺得渾身不自


 


 


然,恍如有千百雙眼睛監視著我們般。  我想那時候


 


 


我們年紀仍小(中一至中二間),人生經歷太嫩,不懂


 


 


得如何去應付這類型的場面。  畢業後我和這位女同


 


 


學仍時有聯繫,每次見面大家都很自然的拿這段往事


 


 


出來調侃一番.  畢竟少年輕狂,很多事實在當年是個


 


 


茫然的經歷,多年後回想,那卻是個既甘且澀的回憶。


 


 


 


 


 


 


我青春的躁動當然不止如此; 升上高中後眼見很多同


 


 


學拍拖,這刺激著我體內的荷爾蒙發酵,也很渴望一


 


 


嚐拍拖的滋味,但苦於環境(家裏及學校管束甚為嚴


 


 


厲),加上主觀條件亦不太“良好”(性格不算外向,


 


 


以今天的語言來說是半個“宅男”),因此即便升上中


 


 


五,我仍是“孤家寡人”一個。  然而這個情況在中


 


 


五後期卻意外地來了個轉機.  上文說過,我們與另一


 


 


理科班在各方面都互相競爭,戰線竟伸延至聖誕舞會. 


 


 


事緣聖士提反堂容許高年班學生在開完聖誕節班際聯


 


 


歡會後,可以在課室內攪舞會(一個題外話:我對在


 


 


課室開聯歡會有一番另類的情懷; 開完聯歡會後,光


 


 


管上的紅色玻璃紙還沒有撕掉就開始正規上課了。 


 


 


在粉紅色的燈光下,我看著老師,同學都特別好看,


 


 


一切在昏紅的燈光下有著另類的美感,心裏有種說不


 


 


出來的感受,覺得世界很柔和很溫暖,現在想起來,


 


 


那就是浪漫)。  當然參加者只限校內高年級的學生。


 


 


我班本來不打算攪什麼舞會,但打聽之下原來乙班準


 


 


備攪一個規模頗大的班舞會,在“唔輸得”的情況之


 


 


下,我們也決定攪個PARTY迎戰.  然而倉猝之間我


 


 


們無甚準備,最重要的是沒有宣傳,別的班(最主要


 


 


是文科班,因為文科班才多女生)根本不知道我們攪


 


 


PARTY,以致那天整個PARTY都是冷冷清清的,正


 


 


當我們意興闌珊,準備收拾東西離去之際,忽然瞅見


 


 


門外站著兩個來自文科班的女同學,原來她們聽到音


 


 


樂聲,好奇心驅使她們循著聲音找到我們.  聖誕


 


 


PARTY雖然已結束了,但另一個“PARTY”卻剛剛


 


 


開始; 我本來對其中一個女生注意已久,但因為彼此


 


 


不同班,苦無機會接觸,今日如此大好機會,我又怎


 


 


會放過,如此這般便成就了我的初戀。  很多人說初


 


 


戀是是刻骨銘心永世難忘,但你若問我現在還記得多


 


 


少當年初戀的滋味,現在回想起來,印象卻已甚為模


 


 


.  我最記得的卻是那女孩子全家都是摩門教徒,由


 


 


此之故我去了幾趟位於衛城與堅道交界,當年仍是摩


 


 


門教的香港總部的甘棠第開了幾次舞會.  那是一種


 


 


甚為奇特的感覺,在一所如此古舊的大宅,參加一個


 


 


甚為保守的宗教團體的舞會,感覺有點不太協調, 但


 


 


這始終是個頗為難忘的經驗.  今天甘棠第已改造成


 


 


為孫中山先生博物館,而當年的初戀情人已移居加拿


 


 


大結婚生子,廿多年間的變化直如滄海桑田。


 


 


 


 


 


 


如今,感覺中學畢業已有幾個光年了,回想中學生活,


 


 


我想我可以如此總結:我人生中最無憂無慮,最真心


 


 


真意的日子即在中學階段時渡過。  不記得誰曾說過


 


 


這樣的一句話:“當你不知道你是誰,你憂鬱,當你


 


 


知道你不是誰,你幻滅。”人生曾經有過幾度忐忑。


 


 


茫茫青春,脫手飛去,一生的沉著與喧嘩,幾度沉澱,


 


 


不改的惟有一顆拒絕成熟的童心.  僅以此篇博客獻


 


 


給已逝去的青春.  最後,且讓我以電影“歲月神偷”


 


 


的主題曲“歲月輕狂”作結:


 


 


 


 


 


水一般的少年


 


 


風一般的歌


 


 


夢一般的遐想


 


 


從前的你和我


 


 


手一揮就再見


 


 


嘴一翹就笑


 


 


腳一動就踏前


 


 


從前的少年


 


 


~ 漫天的迴響


 


 


放眼看 歲月輕狂


 


 


~ 歲月輕狂


 


 


起風的日子流灑奔放


 


 


細雨飄飄 心晴朗


 


 


雲上去 雲上看


 


 


雲上走一趟


 


 


青春的黑夜挑燈流浪


 


 


青春的愛情不回望


 


 


不回想 不回答


 


 


不回憶 不回眸


 


 


反正也不回頭


 


 


~ 漫天的迴響


 


 


放眼看 歲月輕狂


 


 


~ 歲月輕狂


 


 


起風的日子流灑奔放


 


 


細雨飄飄 心晴朗


 


 


雲上去 雲上看


 


 


雲上走一趟


 


 


青春的黑夜挑燈流浪


 


 


青春的愛情不回望


 


 


不回想 不回答


 


 


不回憶 不回眸


 


 


回不了頭


 


 


 


 



後記:  聖士提反堂中學每年十一月的


第一個星期六都會攪賣物會.  這次我趁賣物會之


 


 



便, 回母校感受一下氣氛, 亦順道拍下了這輯相, 作


 


 



為此篇網誌的”插圖”. 





 


 

 














































































































































































































































































































44 則留言:

  1. 當其他人一窩蜂追逐'那些年',還有人記得歲月神偷.

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  2. 我大哥係50年代舊校友。

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  3. 返回母校感覺如何?

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  4. 我大哥幼稚園是在你母校, 小學起便轉了去高主教書院. 你母校數十年来外貌该變不大. 人生匆匆, 學生年代的生活和人际關係是最真, 最快樂.

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  5. 一個倉猝開的派對,即將要完結之際,引來的只有兩位女同學,有一位竟是心儀的女孩子,真的很夢幻啊!

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  6. Back then, our secondary school borrowed your school's chapel for Easter service every year.

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  7. I went to SSGC on Lyttelton Road and Park Road. We walked over to your school in the afternoon for Easter Service at your chapel every year. It was an exciting thing for us because the service usually finished around 3-ish and so the gals could head for shopping right after the service. Of course, the teachers never approved of such activities. If we got caught, we could be in trouble. That's the exciting part of it! LOL

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  8. 看見閣下寫的文字,一幕又一幕的畫面浮現在腦海中。那些全都是中學時期頑皮惡作劇的片段。多謝你把我帶回去昨天!!

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  9. 我下星期便回港度假了, 想問出名蓄茄麵的勝香園是否在上環一带? 點先去到?

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  10. oops, 忘了説thanks添? Many Thanks..

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  11. 最記得在學校聖誕舞會時,有位矮我5cm的中六仔請我跳舞,
    還給同學笑咗一個月.到現在還記得,真是惡夢!

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  12. 恕我唐突一句,點解你出網誌寫中文,而回應卜友時就寫英文?

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  13. Chapel 的照片勾起絲絲青葱歲月回憶,謝謝分享。

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  14. 本人中學母校是貴校的鄰居,每天步行返學必先經過貴校般含道的入口,亦差點成為貴校的預科生,最後因貴校不容許學生在兩年課程中途投考中大而放棄學籍,因此遺憾地無緣成為閣下的師弟.....

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  15. 原來我地讀同一間中學, 不過我自從畢業後都沒有回去了

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  16. 在夢境中就常常見到兒時的校園生活,但多是學校內之班房、更常常夢見到自己走錯課室,其他的人和物就好少夢到,而真實的學校已沒去多年了,都不知變成怎樣?

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  17. 原來我地讀同一間中學, 在你相中坐在中學校務處前那三位老師中左邊嘅周老師呢?

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  18. 我的中學生活只是讀書...

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  19. 聽過有人説: 在街上踫到她, 好在當年無.........她已变成........

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  20. 無講話本人中學生生活乏善足陳,查實個人生涯亦都係同樣乏善足陳,所以兄台有如許可堪回味記憶確係寶貴。

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  21. Mr. Western District, are you OK

    Did not see new post for a long time, hope you are well

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  22. 午安您好~~祝您聖誕 & 冬至快樂~~很好的分享

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  23. MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! 冬至快樂!!★

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  24. ﹒☆°...∮。*´♥`*•‧‧祝冬至&聖誕快樂啊

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  25. 西環兄及各位,

    祝大家聖誕快樂!

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  26. Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!!!
    龍年行好運!!!

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  27. :-) 聖誕快樂..................

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  28. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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  29. 回母校緬懷過去, 很有詩意. 謝謝照片分享. :-)

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  30. 謝謝你, 因為我也被你感染到 "那些年" 的情懷

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  31. 我都係西環書友,讀 St Louis School. 當年 食 lunch 記得有間樂寶快餐店,近威靈頓中學,雞脾意粉 大大盒 都係 HK$3.5 only.

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  32. 還有一間利瑪竇中學,我相信都結束了。

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  33. 我由1975年開始在聖類斯讀小學,直至1983年中學畢業,對西環有深厚感情,中學lunch, 有時還會去華都餐廳午餐。

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  34. 回母校緬懷過去,但好多都今非惜比, 人面全非!

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  35. 我幼年時,是在聖士提反堂讀幼稚園至三年班,那時的教堂內,有一座管風琴,在教堂的右邊,窗門是彩色玻璃,屋頂是黑色金字,50年代;看你的照片,教堂內是新式的,知道擴建中學,舊教堂相信也在擴建時拆掉了,可有舊的學校照嗎?

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  36. Oh. I did study in SSCC for 2 years. It was a short time. Of course, I still remember some of the things. But, it seems my experience was quite different from yours. Possibly due to different time.

    At my time, we had yo go to the 'Pokfulam Park' for PE lessons. We would have the lessons with another class from the same form. Also, girls occupied the small side of it and boys (we) occupied the large side (with the soccer ground). We weren't so lucky like you that you had the very standard soccer ground for PE lessons.

    The lunch places that you mentioned don't really ring the bell. I only remember the fast food shop opposite the school which should be 'King Wo' (correct me if I am wrong). I didn't usually go there but I noticed a lot of other school mates liked to there as so close and not too expensive.

    You mentioned moving around for different lessons. It also happened me and I think it happened to others during that time. But, I only remember that we usually got up to the roof for the Music lessons which you have posted a picture of it. Can't really remember was it like that.

    You didn't mention the St Paul boy school next door. I remember they only allow female students for form 6 and 7 and I had a female classmate jumped there after HKCEE. she must have very good results.Interesting thing, I don't hear any rival between SSCC and St Paul boy.

    You also haven't mentioned one very important thing about SSCC which is 'Vivian Chow' was studying there. It was after your time and before my time. At the same time, I think one TVB Sport News Reporter was studying there. But not really remember the name.

    Another thing that I like to share is there was a Bible teacher 'Miss Ho'. Think she had a nickname 'Holy'. I believe a lot of students really scared about her. Have you heard?

    See you.

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  37. 笑話一則 當年 聖士提反中學 叫做 性事齊玩中學

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  38. 我都係西環書友,可以睇番這些相片,好難得,水街係我每日都會行上行落的,車仔面都係我鍾意食的,多謝你這個POST,令我能夠看到相片之餘,仲可以重溫中學時代成日行過的路,現在己經沒有了。

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    1. Just read over the response posts. I feel much admire for those who can have the secondary school life, indeed, i needed to work as a factory worker to support my family when i graduate from primary school. I made a living when people enjoy their juvenile period, therefore, every time i saw people wearing school uniforms i felt bitter at that time.what i regret is i never have opportunity to study day school

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  39. I am sorry to learn that you missed the chance of secondary education, however, I am also surprised to read your response, in which you used rather smooth English, and its hard to believe that you didnt even have a secondary qualification, I am quite sure you have taken much effort to further your own education, which have resulted in satisfactory result. As they say, it doesn't really matter how you start off from the starting line, the real challenge came from the process and the finishing line~~

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  40. Yes ! I took up the book in 1998 and graduated in 2000 at QCOB AE School. I had got a satisfying result of HKCEE. also , it woke me up to pursue my dream again . Therefore, i have taken a course in OU since 2013.I hope i can get the art of bachelor in E&C in the future. : )

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  41. I really do admire your persistence, and I sincerely hope that you will gain the degree, which you rightly deserve, in the near future~~

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